I don't want to hear it

Stop crying wolf. Don't bother telling me the next time something bad happens to you if you don't try to learn from it. If you can't move on... it's your problem. I listen and to comprehend and make things better for people going thru hard times but if they are just going to go back to the way they were previously after my many consolations, hours of commitment to them as a friend ... this is me, saying no more.